The Spiritual Philosophy of Radical Forgiveness | Brenda Miller, Life Coach, Seattle

Radical Forgiveness is a spiritual philosophy based on some of the following assumptions [from the book, "Radical Forgiveness, Making Room for the Miracle", by author and spiritual teacher, Colin Tipping]. If you find that you have a willingness to be open to the possibility that such assumptions are true, then Radical Forgiveness can work for you. You need only be willing to be willing:

There are at least two realities - each interacting at different vibrations. The SOUL bridges both worlds.
1. The World of Divine Truth: a spiritual reality - essentially mysterious and beyond our five senses to perceive it and beyond our mental capacity to comprehend it.
2. The World of Humanity: the objective reality that we see 'out there' with our five senses. It is the setting in which we live our everyday life as spiritual beings having a human experience.
Life is not just a random set of events without purpose or intelligence. What appears to happen haphazardly is really the unfoldment of a Divine plan that is totally purposeful in terms of our spiritual growth.
We are co-creators with Spirit in the circumstances of our lives and we get precisely what we want (no exceptions). The extent to which we resist (judge) what we get, determines whether we experience it as either joyful or painful.
Whenever we get upset with another person (or organization), they are resonating in us something that we have condemned in ourselves and denied, repressed, and projected on to that person or thing.
Our soul will always move us in the direction of healing and will keep on creating situations that offer us the opportunity to see the 'error' in our thinking or unconscious beliefs. People come into our lives to lovingly 'act out' the parts over and over until we heal the error. Herein lies the gift.
The people who appear most troublesome are our greatest teachers, for they may be offering us the opportunity to heal by either:
1. Mirroring what we have rejected in ourselves and projected on to others.
2. Forcing us to look at something we have repressed.
3. Keeping us on track with our mission (our agreement with Spirit to do certain things in our human experience to either meet a karmic debt, complete with a past life contract, or assist in transforming energies within the human condition).
What appears to be happening in the objective world - all that we call life - is merely illusion. It is a projection of our consciousness (unconscious beliefs, ideas, attitudes, etc.). To know what these are, look at what is showing up in your life. Trying to change or control the outer circumstances of our lives (the illusion) is futile unless we first change our consciousness.
You cannot heal what you cannot feel. Anger work is essential to forgiveness.
Disease begins in the subtle bodies first and only later does it manifest in the body as some kind of illness. Radical Forgiveness raises consciousness, thus allowing our Higher Self to acknowledge the energy of Perfect Wellness.

What Radical Forgiveness Coaching Will Be Like for You

Radical Forgiveness happens in an instant - when you shift your perception and realize that 'nothing wrong really happened, therefore, there is nothing to forgive'. Radical Forgiveness Coaching assists you to embrace the philosophy of Radical Forgiveness and incorporate it into your life. How long that takes depends on you! You may get 'hooked' on coaching - returning for more sessions as new issues reveal themselves to you. This process can be compared to peeling back layers of an onion until you get to the core (issue).

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